12 Soulmate Signs: How to Know When You’ve Met the Love of Your Life
A young boy or a girl believes that life is like a Disney movie where he or she will meet his or her soulmate, fall in love at first sight and after a few conflicts and arguments; they will live happily ever after.
Even in Bollywood movies we see this kind of match-up. Two people who are in love and meant to be together are led by fate to find each other against all odds. No matter how far they are living, the fate will bring them together.
But does this happen in real life?
Most of us give up hope when our “happily ever after” doesn’t appear. And in today’s dating world where Tinder is king, finding a true soulmate is nothing more than a fairy tale.
But at the same time, even in our most skeptical moments, we do tend to look around and see beyond a shadow of doubt that there are people who have met their soulmates. Then why can’t I?
Now coming to the spiritual side of the story…
We are told that before we were even born, the name of our soulmate is determined. Each soul has his or her perfect match – a soulmate.
Even though most of us think of a soulmate as a perfect harmonious union of bliss, but a true soulmate is the person who helps you ‘complete yourself.’
Jerry McGuirerightly said, “Soul mates complete each other. A person is unable to complete his mission in life alone. Everyone needs someone to help them become a better person. This is not always a blissful experience.”
A true soulmate helps you to become a better version of yourself. You have to push yourself beyond your comfort zone, beyond your limits to find your better half.
We all think of soul mates as a symbiotic union. But your relationship with your soulmate can be rough at the beginning. It is like two jagged edged puzzle pieces trying to click into place. Don’t you think so?
Sometimes you think that we do not fit together at all, but soon after a little bit of twisting, turning, and flipping the pieces around, you feel it’s the perfect click. I guess everyone feels so. It’s your gut feeling that says, this is the right one for me.
Now coming to another extreme…..
There might be a possibility that your soulmate appears in disguise. What I mean is that you might not be physically attracted to each other when you first meet, but there is some force that pushes you forward and says that this is “the right one” for you.
So among all these confusions and contradictions, how will you know who is your soulmate?
Don’t worry….
For all of the romantics out there who are still searching for their soulmate, I put together this list of soulmate signs compiled from the lucky people who have found theirs.
12 Soulmate Signs to know you have met the One
When you feel like you’ve met “the one,” it’s still hard to be completely sure. So what are the soulmate signs that show you’ve met the love of your life
1. You just know it
This may sound crazy but it is true. Soulmates always say that when they found ‘the one’, they just knew it. Something deep inside tells them that this is the one for you. It is as if some force pushes them towards each other.
Whether you call it ‘love at first sight’ or just a moment of intuition, but when you find your soulmate you just know that you have met your other half. There is a sense of peacefulness and certainty about your relationship from the very start. Even before you shout out loud, you know that this relationship is going to go a long way.
2. You Both are Ready
Once you know that you have met your soulmate there is no playing around. Even if you find your soulmate at the time when you are not relly looking, once you have found him, you figure out how to take the relationship ahead, no matter what the obstacle is.
For most, one of the sureshot soulmate signs is a desire to commit to each other early and their unwavering capability to follow that commitment. When soulmates decide to be together, there can be no obstacle.
3. You are Best Friends
Meeting your soulmate also means meeting your best friend. No doubt, every friendship is important but your soulmate is the best friend you ever had. You get to know each other at a deeper level in a short time.
If you find someone who becomes your first support, your partner-in-crime, and the first person you call when you have good or bad news, there’s a complete possibility that you have met your soulmate.
4. Your souls meet at the right time
You have to be ready to receive the soul connection. Even though you and your soulmate might be living nearby but you won’t meet till the time is right. So you just have to be prepared to meet your soulmate. There might be a possibility that you have to go through a relationship that doesn’t work out, or that you are not ready to ditch your priorities and checklist, but when it comes to soulmates- timing is everything.
5. You feel each other’s pain
A soulmate stands in other’s shoes and understands. They know each other so well, that the moment he or she walks in the door, you can tell how his or her day was. They feel each other’s emotions: sorrow, worry, and stress. At the same time they also share each other’s happiness and pleasure.
6. You share same life goals
Now this is a very important sign that you have found your soulmate. If both of you don’t have same goals and shared vision of the future, you may not be right for each other. There is a popular saying, “A bird may love a fish, but where would they live?” Well, whoever said it, certainly knew something about soulmates. For instance, if you long for a luxurious life I a big city but your partner wants a peaceful life in small city, it would be difficult to make the relationship work. To live a life that both of you love, you first need to be on the same ground on what that life should look like. When you find your soulmate, you will both agree on the kind of life that you want to build together.
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Soulmates don’t just love to be around each other — they have a deep respect for each other as well. They accept each other’s differences and flaws. They see their partner as a person they are very proud to call their own. Soulmates aceept each other as they are and don’t tend to change the other person, so they are less critical of each other, even though they disagree. A true soulmate will not turn you into something that you are not, but instead will be the best partner possible to support the person what you are.
8. You Take Turns Being Strong
Soulmates both experience stress, heartbreak, and loss, both together and also separately during the course of their lives together. One of the most unfailing soulmate signs is that they will stand together when the going gets tough. When one partner is going through a hard time, the other will support him. And if they are going through a hard time together, they will take turns being strong until they are out of it. This helps them to face all the challenges together.
9. You can hear the other person’s unsaid words
With soulmates, there is such depth to your relationship that you can feel and hear what your partner is thinking, even if it is not verbally expressed.
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10. You’re Comfortable Being Yourself
Many soulmates say that the earliest soulmate signs they noticed in their relationship was how comfortable they felt around each other. Even in the emotional whirlwind of falling in love, soulmates will find that they’ve never felt more secure in opening up to someone and showing their true self.
11. You are Secure Enough to Be Apart
When soulmates find each other, the result is a relationship that is rock solid. They feel secure in their relationship, even if they aren’t together. One of the key soulmate signs is that, no matter what, soulmates know that they will always come back to each other and pick up right where they left off.
12. You complete each other
No one is perfect. We all have our strengths and weaknesses. Soulmates complete each other. It’s the yin and yang of perfect harmony. One person may be the extrovert, while the other is introvert. One may be social, while the other a homebody. Soulmates are often opposite that are attracted to a person who has their missing pieces.
So what do you think of this list of soulmate signs? Have you found your soulmate, and if yes, what soulmate signs would you add to the list?
